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Leaving aside the national and international news, this has been a bad week for me personally.

Most of you know I live in a very small town (or village) where basically everyone knows everyone, grew up knowing their kids -- and are often distantly related in some way to a lot more people. And if not related, then the families are close in the way that certain rural and/or isolated communities tend to be. More of a "Mayberry" vibe than anything else, y'know?


Earlier today, I posted on FB that there had been three deaths in the past week and all three funerals are scheduled for Monday. One in the morning, two in the afternoon -- at the same time, in different churches.

A few hours ago, I learned of yet another death. (That funeral is scheduled for next Saturday, I think.)

Three of the people were friends of my mom and dad, the fourth was a guy I knew from high school.

I was counting up the number of local deaths this year (either actual residents or those with very close family ties) and the total is 25. In a little town of less than 1000 people, that's a surprisingly high number (or so it seems to me.) And yes, a lot of them are much older people, usually late 80's on... but still.

So if you don't see me around much in the next few days or if I am late responding to comments, etc., that is why.

Date: 2016-06-26 03:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lindahoyland.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. It must be upsetting and unsettling for the whole community.

Date: 2016-06-26 01:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cairistiona7.livejournal.com
How very sad. It's so odd how deaths in a community tend to come in "clumps", but to have so many all at once really is awful. *hugs*

Date: 2016-06-26 02:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com
How sad; that is going to be a hard day for both you and your community.

Date: 2016-06-26 07:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] doylebaby.livejournal.com
Having to go to one funeral is upsetting enough, having three on one day and other in a week, is very, very sad.

Date: 2016-06-27 07:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] perkyandproud.livejournal.com
*hugs you tight*

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